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    To Have Wisdom, Read Wisdom

    Just in time for the weekend, here is an easy, accessible way for you to practice wisdom: read wise words daily. I know, this is appallingly obvious. But it bears repeating that we do not gain wisdom through osmosis. We gain it through attention and proximity.…

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    Ninja Wisdom: Hold Your Tongue

    Cardinal rule of the ninja: hold your tongue. This meant never speaking frivolously, never giving too much away, always choosing to listen far more than you speak. Long before “loose lips sink ships” became a war slogan, the ninja realized that their silence ensured their safety.…

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    Wisdom at the Center

    Did you know there are three lists of paramitas? Theravada and Mahayana Buddhism have similar lists, but a few unique to each one. And in the Mahayana tradition, one sutra names six paramitas, while another names ten. (I’m practicing the ten Mahayana paramitas.) In all, wisdom…

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    Introducing: Wisdom

    It’s a new month and that means it’s time to practice another of the ten Buddhist paramitas. The paramita for February is wisdom, or prajna. In Buddhism,  prajna consists of two parts: right view, and right understanding. Right view means seeing things as they truly are; in other…

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    Three Levels of Meditation

    In Tibetan Buddhism, the paramita dhyana can be practiced on three levels. The first level is called worldly concentration. (Some of us hear ‘worldly’ and have been trained to think ‘bad.’ If so, try calling it object meditation instead.) In worldly concentration, we practice meditating on something…

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    Choose Boredom

    When you first begin meditating, it’s natural to feel like you need some “props.” You want to listen to a guided meditation. Or you need music to help you quiet your brain. Or incense to set the mood. None of these things are inherently bad. But…